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(Date Posted:07/02/2008 03:23:03)

Telling your loved one that you have herpes and then telling her how you got it,
this isn't easy...

but i have to do it. To give her a choice, because no one wants to be lied to or cheated or get herpes.

i told my gf and she's devastated. i feel very regretful for my past actions.

even though it happened before i met her, it is still a shameful thing. she hates me and is very very upset.
i do not know how to live on... but i have to.

i still think that it's proper that i told her. i don't want to infect her to make her stay with me. It's stupid to do that.

i have not told my parents, i hope i can live life properly and give them a good life and don't let them worry about me.

(Message edited by jgood on 07/02/2008 12:54:51)
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RE:Telling your loved ones that you have herpes.
(Date Posted:19/02/2008 22:54:47)

Telling your loved ones that you have contracted Herpes is a most difficult thing to do.
However, I feel that educating the person on Herpes is a good way to ease the shock.
I told my wife about my condition and at the same time, I provided her all the websites and online resources to help her understand fully the trauma I was going through.
Always remember that a person could have contracted it some time ago and be asymptomatic for a long period of time and the first symtoms and flare up can happen plenty of time after the initial contracting stage as the virus sits quietly in our spinal cord nervous system.
But I am sure that honestly is the best policy, and it begins with telling and informing your loved ones about your condition rather than hiding it.
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RE:Telling your loved ones that you have herpes.
(Date Posted:29/06/2008 08:16:37)

I have been diagnosed having HSV 1 genital due to my stupidness. I have been working in Dubai for the past 2 years and back home only twice a year. I fully regretted what I have committed.

I have a few questions to ask, I truly appreciate if there is anyone can give me the answers / advice.

(a) have a small red patch (size 0.5cm x 0.5cm - red waxy look) at the 'shaft' of my penis after 13 days of exposure. Doctor diagnosed that it is HSV 1 genital. Does the red patch looks like HSV 1 genital? So far I have no blisters in genital. (My IgG 1 is positive and IgG 2 is negative).

(b) Red spots were appeared on my arm, chest, stomach and upper inner thighs. If I used finger nail to squeeze, there are little bit of fluid being squeezed out and the colour of the spots turned black. Do all these spots look like Herpes? Can Herpes HSV 1 genital transmit to all these areas? Is it possible that I have used the same trowel or finger touched the affected area and affected other areas?

(c) I have protected virginal sex on 27th June 2008 and there were some (about 5-7) tiny red spots appeared at the 'shaft' of the penis. 2 days later, all these red spots disappeared. Are all these related to Herpes HSV 1? Is it so called outbreak due to friction?

(d) Do I need to separate the washing of my clothes, trowel etc. with other family member?

(e) Using condom to for virginal intercourse, can I prevent the disease from spreading to the partner 100%? How effective is the condom?

(f) People having HSV 1 will they be banned from entering and work / reside in certain countries?

(g) Can I share items like toilet seat, soap, trowel, utensil, drinking glass etc with others, will the virus spread? There are a few red spots on my upper inner thighs, were the virus stay at the toilet seat?

(h) On the same day of my last exposure. On my left palm, there was a hard layer of skin (0.5 cm almost circle). I used nail cutter to remove it and it appeared again. Now the layer of skin is a bit different from surrounding skin. It is a bit hard. Is it Herpes on palm?

(i) On the same day of my last exposure. On my right palm, there was a blister (0.3 cm x 0.3 cm). I used my finger nail to remove it. Now the layer of skin is a bit different from surrounding skin. It is a bit hard. Is it Herpes on palm?

(j) How many outbreaks do you have with HSV 1 genital? I heard that most of the people will not have any outbreak for HSV 1 genital after 1-2 years. Is it true?

(k) I also heard that the outbreak for HSV 1 genital is very mild. My 1st episode is very mild, no pain and no itchy, only a red patch and twice urine pain with small quantities of yellowish urine.

(l) Do I need to take any anti-viral medication? Please advice me. I dont feel itchy or pain at all.

(m) Will I transmit the disease to my family? What precaution should I take?

Please advice me asap. My email address is steve_6688@yahoo.com

Steve

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