is a white candle free love spell I was taught by a friend, who got it
from another woman many years ago. It was given to me as a "woman's
spell," possibly because of the phallic shape of the candle, but I see
no reason a man could not perform it -- and in fact, since I first
posted it on the web in 1994, I have heard from a number of men who
have used it with success and satisfaction.
a white candle that will burn down in due time. You will have to
inscribe it (see below), so it should be bigger than a birthday candle,
and you will also have to watch it burn down to nothing (see below), so
it should not be a 24 hour votive light. A plain white 4" altar candle
or, better yet, a white "bride and groom" figural candle, will be
Prepare an altar and decorate it
with those things precious to you and to the one you love. Using a rose
thorn from a white rose bush, inscribe the words "All my love come to
me" 3 times on the candle. Place the inscribed candle in the center of
the altar and light it. For the entire time the candle burns, gaze upon
it and visualize your love coming to you in nakedness and beauty. When
the candle burns out, collect the wax puddle that remains, wrap it up
with the mementos from the altar and keep it in a safe place.
result of this spell will not be "zombie" or "victim" thrall-love; but
you will receive ALL the love that person has for you - which may be
less than, as much as, or more than the love you have for him. Accept
the degree of love you receive with grace and tenderness.
at some future time you no longer wish to receive that person's love,
dispose of the ritual remains of this free love spell in a simple
ceremonial way. Depending on your mood, the wax puddle can be burned on
a fire, buried at a crossroads, thrown into running water, mailed to
him, ground to shavings and baked into a cake - or whatever you feel is
appropriate. But it is your responsibility to dispose of it if you no
longer want to be loved in any degree by that person.